Grow Old With Me

(the story of our life)

Skip to content

Search

Search for:

Processed with MOLDIV

June 8, 2016 / amylynw

Post navigation

← Saying Goodbye to Try

You can receive an email version of each blog post!

If you enter your email address you will receive emails of each new post!

Email Address:

Join 1,188 other subscribers

Search for:

Rules-Based Parenting vs Values-Based Parenting - Ride of A Lifetime

There is an aspect of parenting we discuss which might not be agreed on by everyone. We believe you have to be willing to let your kids fail. It's time for perfectionism parenting to be replaced by truth. Pull down the facade. Your children don’t exist to be a trophy to make you look good in front of other people. Kids are individuals who will have their own journey and story.We talk about walking with our kids through their failures and how it starts with us being transparent about our own.We can’t control our kids away from making mistakes and have to let them experience the good, the bad and the ugly.We talk about how rules provide no power or ability for your child to do what is right. Rather, they create a box-checker.How to build a life irrespective of what others think about you.You have to be willing to offend the right people in order for your kids to be mature.Your kids need to never live in fear of men.How to speak belief into your children.If you’re afraid to mess up or fail, you will never succeed.We close by discussing our ultimate goal as parents, which is to see our children be able to function in the world independent of us.

Rules-Based Parenting vs Values-Based Parenting 39:21
Expanding Creativity in Your Spouse 28:55
Adventure Is Out There- Our Travel Tips 39:19
Bearing Each Other's Burdens 36:55
Life and Leadville 01:03:57

Archives

abberations adventure Africa Betty birth birthdays blessing books boys brothers Christmas cooking cousins cross-fit death doula encouragement faith fall family finances food freedom friends fun funny garden gift gifts Haiti health home homeschool horses jack joy kids lessons love makeover marriage matthew mommyhood motherhood ocean organization paleo parenting Philadelphia photography plexus pregnancy projects quotes real life roadtrip romance running school shore house sisters snow spring summer surprises tea tests thankfulness traditions travel wegeners whimsy winter wrestling writing

Blog at WordPress.com.

Comment
Subscribe Subscribed
- Grow Old With Me
- Already have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.

Leave a comment Cancel reply